People have their own story. They made their own choices. They have their own life.

Every single person in this world is unique with different personalities and matters. There are extroverts and introverts. There are people with a bad sense of humour and those who laugh at everything mostly all of the time. There are those who feel empathy and those who don't even care about what they did to others. There are those who want huge attention and those who feel comfortable being little and unnoticed. There are those who feel happy being in the crowd and those who value solitude more than everything else.

And they have reasons for doing that. Sometimes they share it with others, but sometimes they don't.

I just want to write this for those who didn't know that there is something important in the way we talk with other people. That there is something called personal matters.

For example, in some countries, you can't and is considered being rude if you talk about one's age, salary, or household problems. You also can't talk about their sexual orientation, or their relationship with a certain person, or their religion and how much faith do they have for their God, or any other private information that they don't want to share with everyone else. Especially if you are not that close to that person.

It is just not your concern.

And to make it as a joke is even worse.

So, all I need to say is that you should limit yourselves, for nobody has the same personality as yours. Not everybody understands what you're talking about and not everybody gets your joke and maybe some taken it too seriously even if you don't really mean it.

There are conversation etiquettes that you should not violate.

And one other thing that you should know in the art of speaking to other people is they show what they want to show you and they didn't show what they didn't want to show you. So don't expect them as you wanted them to be, for everyone has secrets and everyone could change.